“I can do it” - How to raise a full-confident Child
Recently I saw many children became “handicapped”. Well, to make it simple, I’m going to give an example.
1. When children were facing a difficulties, instead of trying, they will ask their mom or dad to do it for them, saying, “I can’t do it. It’s too difficult for me….”
2. When they tried it and fail, they will cry and give up.
3. Before they face difficulties, there are many parents or maidservant who became a helper for them so that children never face difficulties at all, saying that they couldn’t help to see their children facing a difficulties.
If these conditions keep on going, children will lack confident because they never face difficulties at all. So what are you going to do to prevent these condition? Are you going to let it flow? I think it is better to change the condition!
1. Let your child know that at some point, they too can do it themselves. Give them a motivation that they can do it.
2. If your children tried and couldn’t do it, help them until they can continue it themselves.
3. Ask your maidservant to let go and help them only when they really really needed it. Otherwise, let them try it themselves.
If you do it, I believe that your children will find out that they can do it themselves and next time they would like to try it themselves. In that way, they will be more confident in everything they do…
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